Affair with Married Woman

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I am a single male in my 30s and have started an affair with a married woman. She keeps on saying she will leave her husband. Do you think I should continue with this affair?

I am not a sex expert nor am I an marriage counselor. But let me tell you some facts about relationships. 

Getting involved with married man or woman only brings bad news. The majority of married people who have affairs never leave their mates/sposes. 

She is only having an affair to spice up her life. Perhaps her husband is not paying attention to her, perhaps he is too busy and so on. But if she was really serious in leaving her husband, she would have done that prior to starting the affair with you. Any married person who tells you that he/she is planning to leave their partner soon and be with you- is a FUCKING liar. it will never happen.

This married woman is not interested in you at all. It is just the thrill of having an affair while being married that is exciting to her. Perhaps you are paying more attention to her. But this is only a transient thing. She has other goals and wants to play around-she may dump you and go out with other men. Who knows what is going on in her life.

You are young and should not invest any more time in this relationship. You have lots more to lose than her if the relationship breaks up. She will probably make up a cockamamie story and get back with her husband, and you will be old and left dry. Remember, when you have affairs with married people, life is not straight forward. You are on the constant look out, you cant go to certain places in case she gets caught. Most of your time with her will be spent in SEEDY motels, where she wont be seen by anyone. You will always be waiting for her-the relationship is not in your control. She controls everything because she is married.

Finally, no matter how pretty, handsome or rich the married partner is-the fact is that they have already deceived their partner by having this affair. So this person is already a liar. There is no reason, why this female will not continue the same trend when she is with you. So move on and find someone single-there are lots of nice single women out there ( i think!).

ECT and memory

Is memory permanently affected by electroconvulsive therapy?

This is not an easy answer. Some patients receive 8-12 sessions and have no memory loss and others undergo 2-4 sessions and have memory loss. On average, there is some memory loss in all patients after the procedure. The short-term memory is most affected.

If you have not recovered the memory after 12 months following ECT; it is unlikely you will recover it ever again. In any case, ECT is nothing like what it was in the past. It is a great procedure and can significantly improve the quality of life. The procedure is relatively safe and produces good results in most people. The stigma surrounding ECT from the 1950s continues to give it a bad rap, but the procedure is safe.

5-HTP for depression

I have mild depression and would like to take 5-HTP. What dose should I start?

5-HTP is a well-known dietary supplement that is extracted from a plant. In the body, it is converted to serotonin, which is thought to be a neurotransmitter for depression. Unfortunately, the dosing of 5-HTP is variable. Like all dietary supplements, there is no quality or quantity control. 

Some people recommend 50mg daily and others recommend 1000 mg daily, I would recommend start low and then gradually increase the dose. The increase in dose should be about 100 mg every week, to a maximum of no more than 1,200 mg per day. 

If you do not see any response by the end of 4-6 weeks, I doubt it will ever work.

Green tea fat burner

Is green tea fat burner effective for weight loss?

No, it is bullshit. A complete waste of money. It is only meant for stupid people who have money to waste. If you have any common sense, you should avoid this fraudulent product. Tea extracts with exotic names are now being marketed as a cure for everything underneath the sun. The only thing you will lose with green tea fat burner is the money in your pocket. 

Among the 6 billion people on this planet, you wont find one person who has lost weight with green tea. Give green tea a rest-it is a scam.

Medications and nightmares

What types of medications cause bad dreams or nightmares?

Almost every drug has the potential to cause bad dreams. In general, beta-blockers and almost all drugs that work in the brain have the potential to induce bad dreams. Unfortunately, this is an adverse effect of many medications and there is nothing anyone can do about it, except stop the drug. Best advice, take the lowest dose of the drug or you may ask your doctor to change the medication.

Over the counter medications for Acne

What over the counter medication can I use to treat my acne?

There is nothing over the counter that works. Salicylic acid, benzyl peroxide, topical antibiotics and all the soaps, are crap. Stop wasting your money on these fraudulent products-they do nothing.

If you have acne, go and see a skin doctor and get a script for a retinoid- ask for Retin A. It works, but it is expensive. If you are a female of childbearing age, the doctor may not always be willing to write you a script as the medication can cause birth defects. Therefore, you must have pregnancy test and cant get pregnant for at least 8-12 months, after stopping this medication. Nevertheless, it is the best drug for acne on the market.

Size of penis

Is there any medication that can increase the size of my penis?

No, there is no such medication. The only way to increase the size of your penis is with surgery. However, I should warn you that the surgery is very high risk and the results are abysmal. 

If you really want a bigger penis, I think you should first start by treating the problem in your head. Go and see a shrink and ask for Prozac. Mucking around with surgery and medications to increase the size of the penis will cause you more problems, than you ever imagined.